• Relationships Take Work

    I Don’t Speak Spanish: How To Speak Love in the Way They Hear It

    I spent much of my time walking the hallways of Big Beaver Falls High School trying to avoid my teacher, Mr. Evans.  “Senor” Evans was a perfectly nice man.  But, he was my Spanish teacher, and anytime he would see one of his students in the hallway, he would try to talk to us in Spanish.  And well, the only thing I knew how to say in Spanish was “No hablo Espanol.” (I don’t speak Spanish.)Have you ever had that same feeling in your relationships? I read a great book by Gary Chapman called “The Five Love Languages.”   Dr. Chapman teaches that every person has a love language. And if…

  • Relationship Advice

    Hey, Get a Room

    “Hey, get a room”. These words have been said to me and my husband, Bobby, literally dozens of times over the years. I’m a modest woman. I don’t dress or speak provocatively in front of others, and we have never crossed any line beyond a quick kiss on the lips in public. So what prompts this consistent and common response from people? I don’t know. I’m always a little surprised. So I did what I always do when I don’t know something. I asked my husband. He didn’t know either. So, I’ve been mulling it over, and here’s what I think. Most people don’t speak sweetly to each other after…