• Life Advice,  Relationship Advice for Men

    Chris Rock Rocked It

    By Bobby Martin So if you were Chris Rock, what would you have done?  This has been one of the biggest topics of discussion in the country this week.  I would like to weigh in on this.  I think Chris Rock rocked it. Here’s why.  Restraint demonstrates much more strength and power than retaliation.  He didn’t even raise his hands.  And he didn’t say anything he would have to take back.  One commentator on Fox News, who happens to be black and in the same age range as Chris and Will, said something to the effect that if someone ever hit him, he’d fire right back.  That’s where he draws…

  • Relationship Advice,  Relationship Advice for Women

    She Thinks My Tractor’s Sexy

    Hi, I got an email from my husband, Bobby. He said, “So Babes, I was inspired to do a quick blog post for you about how to support your spouse.  I hope you like it. I love you, Bobby.” Yes, Darling. I do. I like it. A LOT. Enjoy, Everyone! “She Thinks My Tractor’s Sexy.” Country fan or not, this is a cool song.  It’s by Kenny Chesney.  It’s a wonderful thing when a couple can share an interest or a passion.  In my case, Lori loves my Challenger.  She calls it “Hulkster.”  There’s actually a good technical reason for this.  The car’s engine has several modes, from 4-cylinder MDS…

  • Christian relationship advice,  Relationships Take Work

    How to Keep the Spark Alive

    I was blessed to be featured in UpJourney recently; I contributed to an article entitled What Happens When You Meet Your Soulmate. Afterward, someone posted an intriguing comment on my social media about it. I love all of your comments, and we read every one, no matter where you post them. His statement got me thinking about how to keep the spark alive in our relationships. So he said: “I don’t really buy the soulmate thing…Maybe a relationship…is like a pair of work boots. Awkward the first couple times you wear them. But just before they are about to go to their eternal reward they get really comfortable.” I laughed really…

  • Relationship Advice

    Why Should I Care About Kim and Kanye’s Story?

    Please see the update at the bottom of the article. So, my publicist said that I should write about the current situation between almost-divorced Kim Kardashian and Kanye West. Mentally, I facepalmed. I’m on a strict gossip diet. Like, if gossip were food, my body fat percentage would be 4%. (Oh, if only gossip were food.) Why should I care about Kim and Kanye’s story? But she knows me, and I trust her. So, I started reading, and believe me; I had to do a lot of reading to get caught up. I get it now. Now, I don’t know the details of what’s happening. Most of what gossip mags…